My father said it was hell raising us all and my mother left when she was unable to cope with the situation because she has always told my father that we should move together to England and get a better life but my father refused because he believed he can change things back there in his home country. At the outset, after my mother had run to England living the kids behind, my father began to suffer from liver Cirrhosis because he was an alcoholic and never wanted to call for his father's financial assistance.