Pim,
Today you say you not have blood and within 12 hours you want to adopt a baby ? Please read this list below and try to understand - you seem to want to make a decision very quickly - you need to slow down.
These are things you need to try to think about before you even think about adopting a baby.
1. How well is the well - medically ?
2. What is the adoption process. What are the legalities ?
3. What if she wants baby back ? Where do you stand legally ?
4. Where will the baby live ? In Bkk or nan.
5. Who will take care of the baby each day ?
6. What is the rough cost a month for an extra child - who is paying it ?
7. What happens if you get pregnant with our child ?
8. Do you change babies name in law ? To our name - Coleman
9. Who has the child if we split up ?
10. What rights does the father have to the child ?
I am sure there are many more. Does having this child in our lives mean you cannot buy a house ?
Pim, these are but a few issues you need to address before even thinking about it. It is not that I would be unhappy with what you want but to do but what you are asking is a very very big step. It is not something you should do on the spure of the moment. It may be exciting for you, but do not make any decisions before seriously thinking about it.
Pim, I will do what you want, but it has to be worked out correctly and thought about more. Do you understand ?
R