Today's thoughts (it's a novel, hee, hee, hee) about.... How are they going to maneuver this the morning after!
First a recap ....
We all know they committed from day one to dive into this virtual adventure with honesty to portray a real married couple...while still being single. They let their real feelings show, and reflected on what happened after eash session in their BRI's. A lot of the responses were, "What was I feeling?, Why did I feel that way?" Which means they experienced the real feelings, real emotions for and about each other. They seem to actually have committed to each other to live as a married couple on and off screen until the show ends...which is what I mean by the "morning after".
FNC family seems to see JH as a married man...They have also bought into their reality! Choa does not ever seem skeptical that what she is seeing is anything but 100% real.
Both JH & SY are playing this game with their sincere honesty and are very much connected to each other because of it: Some pages back I mentioned that JH sees her as his own and does not see her as a single woman (even though they are committed for a show). SY is the same and watches him like a hawk! POSSESSIVE TENDENCIES...OWNERSHIP TENDENCIES! They touch each other freely, and hold hands, and smell hands, and kiss hands, and kiss cheeks, and front hug, and back hug and touch hair, and push dimples and flirt, flirt, flirt whenever they are together! AND they have been doing this consistently for almost 6 months straight!!!! It only takes 21 days of doing anything to create a habit. This is now more than a habit...it is now a comfort zone, it is now their reality. What I'm saying is, science and brain function alone has already programmed their manner and actions into their heads that says, "We ARE married!" (I hope that makes sense lol).
Now...fast forward (hopefully a long time from now and) my question: How are they going to maneuver this situation the on the "morning after"?
I wonder at the times while JH rides in his car alone, does he feel weird driving without her hand in his? I'm sure he thinks about that even now (not a delulu thought here). I don't believe there is a way to go back...a way to be "just friends" after experiencing all they have together. How will he be able to stand next to her and NOT grab her hand? Not smell her hand? Which is something a "just friend" wouldn't be allowed to do. How will these two just say, "We will be friends now so our careers can grow" to their world, because they must for the sake of their careers. I just don't see that happening. They are so used to showing affection openly and caring for each other openly how can they take their natural state with each other and make it work with the public?
Most couples on this show get real inky and try to play it like they developed a really close friendship. SoRim did this a little better than most, but I felt theirs was actually a one sided love on JaeRim's side. But they probably will remain friends even though JR really did love her. Most other couples stop talking about the show because the gig is over, and then never again mention that they were once a virtual couple ...and Jonghwa for instance...never a peep and I'm real surprised he was actually at their wedding!
But our couple...after touching each other so much and bonding so closely ..how can they ever "just be friends"....in my mind...it's just not possible
Today's thoughts (it's a novel, hee, hee, hee) about.... How are they going to maneuver this the morning after! First a recap ....We all know they committed from day one to dive into this virtual adventure with honesty to portray a real married couple...while still being single. They let their real feelings show, and reflected on what happened after eash session in their BRI's. A lot of the responses were, "What was I feeling?, Why did I feel that way?" Which means they experienced the real feelings, real emotions for and about each other. They seem to actually have committed to each other to live as a married couple on and off screen until the show ends...which is what I mean by the "morning after". FNC family seems to see JH as a married man...They have also bought into their reality! Choa does not ever seem skeptical that what she is seeing is anything but 100% real.Both JH & SY are playing this game with their sincere honesty and are very much connected to each other because of it: Some pages back I mentioned that JH sees her as his own and does not see her as a single woman (even though they are committed for a show). SY is the same and watches him like a hawk! POSSESSIVE TENDENCIES...OWNERSHIP TENDENCIES! They touch each other freely, and hold hands, and smell hands, and kiss hands, and kiss cheeks, and front hug, and back hug and touch hair, and push dimples and flirt, flirt, flirt whenever they are together! AND they have been doing this consistently for almost 6 months straight!!!! It only takes 21 days of doing anything to create a habit. This is now more than a habit...it is now a comfort zone, it is now their reality. What I'm saying is, science and brain function alone has already programmed their manner and actions into their heads that says, "We ARE married!" (I hope that makes sense lol).
Now...fast forward (hopefully a long time from now and) my question: How are they going to maneuver this situation the on the "morning after"?
I wonder at the times while JH rides in his car alone, does he feel weird driving without her hand in his? I'm sure he thinks about that even now (not a delulu thought here). I don't believe there is a way to go back...a way to be "just friends" after experiencing all they have together. How will he be able to stand next to her and NOT grab her hand? Not smell her hand? Which is something a "just friend" wouldn't be allowed to do. How will these two just say, "We will be friends now so our careers can grow" to their world, because they must for the sake of their careers. I just don't see that happening. They are so used to showing affection openly and caring for each other openly how can they take their natural state with each other and make it work with the public?
Most couples on this show get real inky and try to play it like they developed a really close friendship. SoRim did this a little better than most, but I felt theirs was actually a one sided love on JaeRim's side. But they probably will remain friends even though JR really did love her. Most other couples stop talking about the show because the gig is over, and then never again mention that they were once a virtual couple ...and Jonghwa for instance...never a peep and I'm real surprised he was actually at their wedding!
But our couple...after touching each other so much and bonding so closely ..how can they ever "just be friends"....in my mind...it's just not possible
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