Even though I can understand your economic limitations due to your low salary and even though I have that money, I really think that it is not adequate, not good, and not healthy to start our relation asking that amount even before we meet for the first time. I am very sorry to say that. I should understand that if you are not in communication with me, you would have the money to pay your rent... Now before we know each other, asking for 4,000 TBH looks not a first dating among two people who feel attracted to each other, looks something different.