I am in a happy relationship and I do not want to change; however, my partner and I no longer have sexual feelings for each other, and I like to meet other people sometimes. It does not have to be for sex, but if it feels good for both of us, then why not?
Some people on this site have criticised me for having sexual contact with people outside my relationship, and they are entitled to their opinion, of course; in fact, I would have agreed with them about ten years ago. All I can say in my defence is that at least I am telling the truth, and I do not think I am hurting anybody.