Wow..Really you think I have changed?? So maybe I should pay less attention to my kids and more to you?? The kids are very important and there needs come first..When they get home I have to make sure there homework is done and make them something to eat..Yesterday I sat in a meeting for over 2 hours..im sorry and maybe I am not the guy for you...Maybe I need to find someone who understand that kids are important as long as there needs..I am not perfect and neither are they.