i saw your message and do not know where to start from one thing u have not considered is me. my love for u is as deep as the sea and can not be waved aside. truly u are confused if it is for real i am assuring that i can not love another as i love u. i think u have a prominent role to play in this situation in convincing your self if indeed i have any feeling for me. please have a rethink cos the love i feel for u is from the depth of my soul have never felt like this before one thing u have to understand bout marriage is it is union between two matured minds as husband and wife. the most important thing in marriage is love and maturity. distance is not a barrier to love or marriage either. though it enhances it. Also there are other factors to consider like finances, friendship etcetc Though families are to be considered but there role in marriages are not prominent if i will use my culture here in UK as an example. Our mutual agreement is the most important thing in marriage every other thing is secondary as far as i am