you are having a nice day over there.It is always nice to write you,and also get a message from you because it helps us to know ourselves more better.....your picture are very lovely and i must comment that you are a pretty lady,when last were you told this?All what you said about yourself, your family and all what you think does not bother me because its always like when you are the bread winner of your family,you will always have to provide for them . Its good that you have a giving spirit and that will help you alot in the future.