Another importance of my mother’s trait that influences me to be better is kindness. My mother is a generous woman, and she always makes merits. On the other hand, I was a narrow-minded person since I think that giving something to someone is not necessary. In my opinion, I think that if you have two hands, two feet and your own brain, it is no need to beg from others. However, I found the answers from my mother why we need to rely on others. My mother said that “We need to help others because in the real world, you cannot stand alone. Something that you cannot do by yourself needs to rely on others’ help. Who knows? Maybe the people you help today may return your help when you suffer.” She also added that “Kindness makes the world full of peacefulness.” From then on, I always help other people and make merits because my mother’s advice is reasonable. In addition, it makes me change my pessimism.