Here is my short story : Worked with Japanese as Financial / Investment consultant for the last 25 years. While my wife did not have to work for the last 20 years ever since we were married in Canada. I have a19 year old daughter in university (3rd grade ). I had good pay , my wife had maid at home, Drives all expensive cars. Was complaining about my pressure of work, so I resigned in 2012 to live well with my family rest of the life.