Because in their Profiles, they say they are understanding and the only thing they want is for a guy to understand and accept them for WHO and WHAT they are. A guy who is honest about his true feelings and such... BUT, they get one glance at this Profile, and suddenly I am hideous, rapacious, monster who wants to harm them and am not deserving of neither - understanding, acceptance, kindness, or human respect.... So... They want understanding, acceptance, kindness, and some "respect"... But, are not willing to give it...
I don't like that...