I'm not the type to express my emotions in person because I'm always worried about offending and / or hurting the person. Therefore, I find it really difficult to say words that are on my mind. Recently, I decided to write my thoughts on a journal and my friend often suggested that even when I'm afraid, it's best to be honest to the person and tell him / her what bothers me, especially if that individual is important to me. I would like to point out that the words we want to say to someone never comes out the same exact way. But at the end of the day, what matters is the fact that you can step up and be honest to the person you care about. I would strongly suggest not to think ahead of time and just go with the flow