This is especially ture if you are her boyfriend and trying to figure out what she wants . Man and womann are different species with different meeds. How can we hopevto care for each other inthe way thatwe would like to? The ture is that it is impossubke. Misunderstandings arevinevitabls.you cannot avoid stepping on each other's toes .The only thing you can do is to be as consuderate as possible and apoliguze when you have wornged her