Pim - why are you feeling sad and hurt ?
I have told you before - our dream is three stepping stones in a river. We have to tread on each stone to get to the other side.
First stone - meet and marry, together for 1 month.
second stone - stay with you 2 months to see what life will be and plan.
third stone - move to be with you - for ever.
You cannot get to our dream without stepping on the first stone.
Is it better in your life to not have a dream come true because you worried about the first step ? Is the first step better than no step ?
Believe me Pim, I too would want longer than the first 30 days. BUT, there are things for us both to do - me to go back UK, save some money and come back, you to plan to show me how my life with you will be.
Yes, there will be some times when I am away from you when we live together - I will have to return to the UK every 6 months or so to check on my house and see the boys, but it would only be for a week or so at the most.
My plan in life is to live with the prettiest women in the world to me - YOU - my wife.
You will understand how I feel when we meet in 74 hours !!! Just over 3 days.
Life begins now Pim. Past is history. Time now to live, love and enjoy the rest of our life.
So not more hurt - no more feeling bad.
And if you are really sad and hurt as it is only 30 days now - then you have to make the most of our time together. Fear nothing , love everything.
Your Husband you loves you so much. Richard