Men that are intelligent, and honest are not always who you want them to be.
Intellect does not always come from studying, but having more life experiences than other people...
We never know the real reason why people come here, so everyone judges everyone else.
This is human - what makes a woman more beautiful than another, is her ability to reason and use her own judgement wisely.
Unfortunately, you won't find many "smart, honest" men on this website.
Farang tend to lose their educational experience when they come here.
Also the "gym" bodybuilders that most girls seem to like, use way too many drugs to get that perfect body... so while you're looking for that "perfect 6 pack" guy in Bangkok, ask him about his steroid use, because Bangkok is known for it's sale of fitness drugs.
Good luck to find everything that you are looking for, but like 1000's of Thai girls... it's not about what YOU want, but what you can actually give to someone else.
and the UK is pretty low class for Thailand