I think like you that her should be gradually gaining confidence outside of school. so I take her play outside for she will have society and development of her confidence. And I hope it will be her increase courage assertive. In part of she has got into the habit of going to the toilet a lot, she was being about 2 weeks ago before term begins and I took her to see a doctor. A doctor explain to me it will be attention behavior which children about 4-5 years will be. So we must to deflection behavior and it rather the better. Please take care of her, thank you very much.