I need friends who love us and care about us, especially when we are hurting. And usually this is not the time when I could say we are at our best. Tell your friends about what hurts you. Feel their comfort and love. Make sure they understand I may not want advice on how to resolve your issues. What we all need is a loving ear to listen to us with their heart. We need loving friends in our lives. Many people pay for a therapist to listen to them because they cannot tell their friends about their experiences. Take the risk and share these happenings and I feelings with close friends whom I can trust.