Lastly, rules for success:
1) photos help
2) don't show interest/send a message if you have no intention of replying to my message
3) don't give me your line if you have no interest in chatting.
4) I respect honesty and directness; I hate this 'loss of face' attitude in Asia. If you'Re not interested in me, don't reply or just say not interested. Saves so much time.
Hate filling these things out; prefer to get to know people naturally over a wine/beer/coffee or let's go to the gym together!