I read your mail carefully and understand your position ,I think .
Am i right to think that you do not want to enter a serious relationship, being
indebted or obligated to the other person from the beginning, if they pay your debt ?
If this is your position I respect that.
You should realise that Nenee has no intention or desire to return to Nilly and me
Nilly is happy that I am talking to you because she wants to understand her Thai background more .
Are you open to us continuing to build our relationship?
I want this very much.
Would you allow me to come to Thailand to meet you in late September - early October?
When you say 'that is all i want me to know about me' do you mean you want to limit what i know about you, or do
you mean that you want me to know all about your situation?
Yes, I agree we can pass this time and these problems easily enough if our hearts are in the right place.
I hope you feel the same
Its ok, I always do for Nilly , and caring for you is part of doing for Nilly as well, in the end :)