You limit yourself so much with all your classifications and categories. Life can be seen as an incessant struggle of society in order to reduce your freedom to established hierarchies and institutions, e.g., when you were a child you were not a programmer, now you are or are going to be one. So your decision determines that now you are not a physicist, a baker or a restorer. So, don't help society to strangle you more with all these descriptions! For example, who says you are a stereotypical INTJ? This could be considered only an excuse to justify a behaviour. Try to avoid all those extrinsic impositions!