Pim,
I am going to try and explain something to you, which I hope you will understand and see what I am trying to say.
In about 1 month I will be changing my entire life to come and live with you. You are my wife and my place is by the lady I love and have married. Yes, I will have problems with Supreeya and the children, but maybe we will overcome them. I married you because for some reason the momment I saw you I knew I would marry you - do not ask me why as I cannot give you an answer.
Now I will tell you what I want to say to you.
Pim, please understand I will be moving to a country whose culture and language I do not understand. Please understand that I will be moving into an area/condo with you that I do not know anybody. Please understand that from what I can see the nearest place for me to shop or go see a movie - not a market - is 2.5 KM away.
Now this leaves me with some issues. Firstly I know that you want to be near your work, so I am OK to help you be near your work. I am your husband I want you happy in your work - besides we will both need new teeth some day !!! hahaha.
BUT, please understand that this leaves me pretty much in the condo all day every day. I do worry about getting bored when you are at work - but I will try and go to the gym, the sauna or the pool to work out to try and get the body my wife deserves.
I want you to understand why I say a lot about you having a child. I do love you Pim and a child makes our union complete - if we can and you do not take any contraceptive pills. But one - no more.
I say this as you will be at work all day, and I have all day every day to fill in. I would be happy staying at home taking care of our child. I would have something to do. There is nothing more I would love or be proud of more than coming to meet you from work with the baby in the push-chair !
You say many times for me not to be with another woman - and it will not happen Pim, but I need to be able to do something. I cannot work in Thailand and I do think I would be able to go anywhere in Bangkok without you worrying I was doing something with someone. I want to stop those fears for you Pim. So, if we do have a child I think it would make you more relaxed in our relationship knowing where I was and who I was with.
Hey maybe you do alreay I do not know.
All I say Pim is I am happy on my own all day, but I would be happier with you all day, and if not you, then the offspring of outr union.
If we have a child, I will be happy for us to wait in BKK until we have enough money to buy a house somewhere up north and you have a small business if you can. 1 year 3 years 5 years - I would not care as I would be happy.
I hope you understand this Pim.
Your loving husband, Richard.