Then the second question I would have is, will I find myself prizing this person, caring for this person? I certainly don't want to pretend a if I dislike my client persistently, I feel it is better, that I should express it. But I know that the process of therapy is much more likely to occur and constructive change is much more likely, if I feel a real spontaneous prizing of this individual with whom I'm working, a prizing of this person as a separate individual. You can call that quality acceptance, you can call it caring, you can call it a non-possessive love if you wish. I think any of those terms tend to describe it. I know that the relationship will prove more constructive if it's present.