ways to get Psychologically healthier,quickly
when the stress and wear and tear of everyday life gets us down,there are small things that we can do that will allow us to take a break and improve our well-being,here are some research-supported practices that can help us feel better and less stressed or troubled;
1.express gratitude.
research in positive psychology has discovered the benefits of expressing gratitude-appreciating what we have,or thanking someone for something positive they have done for or given us.
Not only can gratitude make us feel better and more optimistic,but it increases empathy,and,if expressed to a friend or loved one,makes them feel better,too
2.laugh and be happy.
laughter may not be the best medicine,but it certainly can make us feel better.laughter can increase energy,and it's hard to feel stressed when you are laughing.even smiling can have an effect.Research on the facial feedback effect found that when participants were made to smile(by holding a pencil between their teeth),it increased their feeling of happiness.in addition,laughter is infectious and can lighten a tense situation,or make another person feel better.
3.take a break.
taking a breaak from the everyday grind-a weekend getway,a round of golf,a good workout,a shopping spree-can provide welcome stress relief.the critical element,however,its truly "take a break" and not sit ruminating on what you are not getting done.rewarding youself with a break is a quick way to get some relife.
4.visit someone who needs you
begin a support to friend or loved ones in their time of sickness or trouble not only makes them feel better,but can improve your well-being,both through the shared camaraderie,and from knowing that you are helping them get through a difficult time.
5.spend quality time with a loved one.
nothing is more rewarding than spending focused,positive time with someone you love.whether it is a romantic dinner,an outing with a child,reminiscing with parents,or an enjoyable activity with a sibling or best friend,these in tense,focused interactions lead to the positive memories that will get us through future hard times.
6.volunteer or help someone
many people engage in volunteer work simply because it makes them feel good to know that they are helping others.and it's an easy thing to do because there are so many structured volunteer organizations.