Do´s and don´ts in Sweden
Sweden is fantastic!
The above phrase is often used ironically, especially when
we are talking about our fantastic bureaucracy or our
fantastic rules, regulations and laws – not to mention our fantastic taxes which we
firmly believe are the highest in the world!
But we also DO believe that our country is fantastic, especially in the summer time.
We believe our scenery and countryside is outstanding. The Swedes are a sun loving
people, since we are not so used to neither long, sunny nor hot summers.
Meeting People
Most Swedes are able to speak English very fluently. Upon meeting a Swede, make a
firm handshake and maintain good eye contact. Young people normally don’t shake
hands. In general, many Swedish people are reserved in their body language and do
not kiss, embrace, or touch each other often in public. To open a conversation, you
can always start talking about the weather. Swedes like to keep their personal lives
to themselves. A good topic is to discuss travel destinations; they love to travel –
especially in the winters. Swedish speakers are generally in the habit of taking long
breaks between thoughts; be patient.
Be sure you are in a smoking area before lighting a cigarette. Smoking is forbidden
in most places, bars and restaurants included.
If you want to address someone directly, you always use the person’s first name.
Punctuality
Punctuality is important in Sweden and is considered a matter of respect. The
emphasis on time can be seen in everyday business contacts, as well as in social
situations.
Table manners
Table manners are continental, the fork is held in the left and the knife in the right
hand while eating. Do not begin eating until your host or hostess says “smaklig
måltid.” The host gives the first toast. Everyone lifts glasses, looks the persons
making the toast and the rest of the guest in the eyes and says “skål”