A Thai girl here said, "A lot of girls keep their feelings to themselves because they're tired of pouring their hearts out to ... the wrong guy."
I agree. Most girls stop trying, give up and become bitter and aloof. They look pretty, they look happy, they work hard, they have good jobs, they have money but it's all a fake illusion. Most girls never have a guy who talks to their heart, not even once in their whole lives.
It is a rare magic when a girl allows a guy have the chance to speak quietly to her secret heart. I can do it. I have done it. But many girls have hearts that are too hard and too tough, no patience, no trust, no effort, just flip through profiles, respond once or twice then on to somebody else and say "all these guys are wrong, too old, too young, not handsome, not cool, not this and not that, my bad luck." If a girl is a cold fish and only waiting to be dazzled, she will always find the wrong guy.
I live far away in the U.S. so I'm not interested in girlfriend or wife right now, only friends. It will be boring at first, always "hi, how are you?" and "what do you like?" boring blah blah blah but, if we continue and you try to trust me, it will be worth it.