here are two things to blame for the problem of men being lazy bums: (1) Traditional Vietnamese culture has imprinted in their brains the idea that “Husband is the King, Wife is the Slave”. This idea was formed when men used to be the main providers of the family, giving him all the powers in the house. However, as society modernized, it is much more difficult for men to be the only providers in the family. This has forced women into the workforce, but men are having problems adjusting their living style to share chores in the home. Basically, women have moved forward along with modern society while their men are lagging behind. (2) The second reason could be explained by the following characteristic.