While the position on your side is a good choice to start with, don’t forget that there’s still plenty of different things to try as well. For example, some men find that getting up on their hands and knees and pushing their massager in from behind provides the best sensations. They talk about it allowing for a deeper penetration and a more “whole-body”feeling. Still others suggest at least starting from a standing position and resting one foot on a chair to make access more easy, though they do say to continue by lying down.