I don't think your standards are too high. In fact, I think they are fairly basic. Interesting that you use the word God. What do you think of when you use the word? I suppose only God knows the answers to those questions. However, I can share my thoughts though...man and woman are counterparts and balance one another. Men are often stronger than women because it helps maintain a balance as each gender brings something unique to the partnership that the other needs. Women tend to be more patience and nurturing, so are better at raising children.