What do to on the first date? What you can do will depend on certain criteria. How long have you been talking with her? How much do you know of her? How did you meet her? GO on your date with knowledge of this girl or woman, because if you really want to go the second date, or get on first base, you better ready to amuse her, entertain her, and most importantly, be prefered to listen. Specially if you like her.