Fourth Email
How are you doing thanks so much for the message i am so happy to read from you again. I am so sorry for the late response i have been so busy with taking care of my sick mom. i hope you will forgive me for getting back to you late.
Thanks so much for the comment about my pictures, you are a darling. I will like you to email me some pictures of you too.
I am so glad to read all you have to tell me about you, it gives me alot to learn about you. To answer your questions. My last relationship lasted for 6 years and she is the mother of my daughter. I have something i will like to share with you. Its my theory on relationships.
I have learn more about relationship..You see,I feel there are five very basic but essential elements of a relationship.They are also to a degree sequential. First is honesty and then respect.They go hand in hand and without them any type of relationship; business, personal, family, whatever, is doomed for failure.Anyone who is dishonest,can not be respected. Without showing respect, it is unlikely to be treated with honesty.Those are fundamental to trust which like respect is earned because honesty was first and was given.When trust is built and respect is earned and they are given and shared, then love will grow.When you love and trust where giving is more important than receiving then commitment becomes a part of the relationship.At that point, you promise and believe it will be forever.You can do this because you love and trust the other person and are committed to making a life to share together..This may sound silly to you,I don't know.But I really do believe it with all my heart and soul.
Now that I have danced all over the the floor,I will try to be more specific. First, no one is perfect, especially me.I know this though, when the right person or person that seems right comes into your life you will know it. A connection happens and you just can't, or won't let go of them. Your whole life changes and all of the emptiness begins to fill up. It starts with the first touch, the first time you look into each other's eyes, the very first time for everything becomes a moment to remember. Sometimes it happens quickly, other times it takes years. I don't pretend to have the wisdom to explain or understand. This is certain, if you are at all intelligent and conscious, if a person is wrong for you it is obvious. I truly believe it is easier to know if someone is not right for you than to know if some is.
The respect, the trust just will not happen. Just don't ever let infatuation or sexual appeal be mistaken for love.About the kind of woman i am looking for? well first she must be honest , open minded , willing to share thoughts and ideas ,a woman that will be there for me , believe in me , love me for who i am , care for me , be like a sister , friend , mother , and most of all a wonderful wife and mother of our kids , a woman that will stick with me through the storms of life and still tells me she loves me .A woman that will stick to the oath of for better for worse and till death do us part i am not saying i am looking for a perfect woman but the right woman . The more I communicate with you, the more fascinated I am becoming. I am very definitely interested. We are very definitely at a very early stage of a relationship and I don't expect any unreasonable commitments. I only ask that you be totally honest. I promise to do the same.
Respect my feelings and I will respect yours. I know we will not always agree on every viewpoint, but everyone is entitled to their own perspective. If you were to look at an animal, such as a horse from the front..You would see the soft nuzzle and beautiful eyes. If I were behind the horse, I would see a horse's ass.If we could trade perspectives, we would see life as it really is.But i have learn that relationships are very hard..People grow and change with time. people have their own minds, dreams and goals.To have a solid relationship the two people must commit to it. They must work at it and try to find the middle ground between them.People must be able to give and take and to trust that the relationship is what is most important. If a career, or a goal or a idea becomes more important then the relationship itself, then it will fail. The two people must nurture and care for the relationship like you would a flower. Feed it always , water it and help it grow with lots of love, attention and sunshine. I look for a friend, a companion, a sultry lover, and a woman who respects me as I do her.. I work hard and will work hard for the relationship. Communication is necessary and most important no cheating or lying. Work through good and the bad.... I look for peace and harmony.The woman to share life with and know she cares for me and I can care for her.What you say is true love is a fragile issue , when you have it it takes hard work to keep it shining or else it will lose its glow ,people need to know it very well before jumping into it thats why their is a high rate of divorce this days there don't seem to be communication between partners about how they truly feel .Sometimes partners act very selfish and self centered that they don't carry the other lover along in what they do and it seems that they just shut the world out on them .I want a woman that can make me feel secure , a woman that wherever and whatever we go through her love will never change , a woman that without telling me with words i will see it in her eyes that she loves me.Here is a long novels from me...I will like to hear from you very soon...
James.
Fifth email and final email.
How are you doing? I hope you are enjoying your weekend. I just saw the pictures you sent in your previous email you are absolutely beautiful. Its been a while i have seen such beauty. Where have you been all my life, I am feeling so lucky. I hope you have a productive day today. I am looking forward to your email.