many thanks for your message. It is very nice that you have children (sons?). I also have three. I find you very sympathetic. However, I would expect that you come at least most of the year to live with me in Austria; certainly you could also live for several months in your country. The problem is that it may be too difficult for you to change place of living. Also would be difficult to get a teaching job here in Austria. But without that, life would not be nice for you. What do you think?