Dear Mam, I am so sorry to you for your husband, he died by an accident?
Why you think you have no possibility to go to Switzerland or other Country? What needs to happen that you can move to other Country? You think it's a problem you have to manage in Thailand or what you mean? If you like to move, I think it is possible you can! To stay a Long time in Switzerland is only possible if you get married, for Holiday you can stay up to 3 month in Switzerland if you are invited.
You write good English, where you learn or you need it for your work? I Need sometime the Google translator, i know the word but not exactly how to write. I was yesterday in face book and have seen photo from you, I liked!
I am now 61 old and I have a Agreement with the two friends I have the Business that I work together wit them for 10 years, now we are in the third season mean a other 7 years I will work. We have our Business open from around 10 of September to 5 of May after I work 3 month by a friend as a motorcycle mechanic. Normally from middle of August I make 3 week Holiday in Thailand, so looks a year from me. When I stop work and retired I plan to move to Thailand and to stay the most time in the year there.
What you think about my plan, maybe you think I am a little crazy, maybe you right..
Be careful and wish you a happy day!
I like to hug you and get some jup jup jup jup ..... from you