Dear sister Puie
Alf call me. He was so sad and sorry. He write a lot to you in anger and sadness and frustration. But Alf took all the blame.
Dear sister, I understand Alf so much. Alf need a woman. And in the Bible the woman STAY WITH HIS MAN. GOD CREATE IT LIKE THIS.
Dear sister Puie, please try to determine if you want to be single or married. It seems that you want to be both single AND married at the SAME TIME. And THAT are not from GOD.
I'm very sad and very disappointed if you do NOT visit Alf, as you promise my father and me. Then I feel it's something wrong in your behavior. Then you do not respect Alf, my dad, me and our family.
And if you break up with Alf, I think you are a very sad woman. Nisa told me that when you are engaged in Thailand, then you are in real married.
I will not talk about it to my father yet. Not to Nisa or Jan either. But dear sister, I told you what I told you, as you are my real sister, and I'm your real brother.
Shame on you dear sister. If you are engaged with Alf, and do not want to visit him, then you have to pray to GOD, and ask him to give you a new born heart. I would never in my darkest mind think you has such a lack of responsibility.
Please find a datum when you can visit Alf. But I wonder, why can't Alf visit you? You have to understand dear sister, that you have to see eachother!!
Please pray to God, our God.