My first recommendation is to try to find another parent of a child with a disability, preferably one who has chosen to be a parent helper, and seek his or her assistance. All over the United States and over the world, there are Parent to Parent Programs. Each State also has a Parent Training and Information Center (PTI), and many have a Community Parent Resource Center (CPRC). PTIs and CPRCs can put you in touch with parents and parent groups locally, and connect with resources in your State.