Hi Pong, thank for your message, you can send some rain down this way, we had some last weekend but not enough to break the drought. I have herd that rural families live that way but I could not live with any of my family, I like my space. I worked in a family business for 25 years that was bad enough. I think I was better off because I would not have what I got now. I do believe that learning the code of behavior should be learnt at home but the do goods that we have now you can not do anything to a child to put them in the right direction. My eldest son has a 14 year old daughter that keeps running away the police find her and bring her home she stays a month then off she goes. My son is a bit to strict with her but there isn`t a thing we can do from here. thanks for the shoulder to cry on Pong Larry