Confidence is key when it comes to approaching and attracting women. And men who have a lack of confidence often lose self esteem because they blame themselves for their low self confidence.
What they forget is that it's possible to build self confidence for any man who wants to improve their confidence level as long as they're committed to taking small steps every day to stepping just a tiny bit outside of their "comfort zone".
Your comfort zone is the key element that you need to challenge every day because if you don't, you won't be able to gain confidence. That doesn't mean in order to be self confident you need to do dangerous things, but simply to take regular small steps just outside of what is totally inside your comfort zone.
It's easy to build confidence this way sustainably,
you'll notice the longer term benefits after a while and you'll notice a secret side effect in other areas of your life.
Stephan Erdman is a confidence and dating expert teaching authentic game to men who want to attract women without the stress of learning routines, using weird pick up lines or feeling uncomfortable. If you're tired of feeling like you're "acting" when it comes to meeting women and you'd prefer to attract women to you rather than to another "pick up artist's routine" then his approach will be the answer you've been looking for.