Whether you went on two dates or were in a committed relationship for a year, ending your romance via blue bubble is not only tacky, but very hurtful and disrespectful. That's why online dating expert Julia Spira suggests going the necessary extra mile and picking up the phone. 'I've seen someone pen paragraphs of a 'Dear John' letter via text. If you were close enough to be naked with someone and talk about the future at some point, have the courtesy to call or meet in person,' she says. 'Sometimes there's just a misunderstanding that could prevent a breakup.'