you know you should not judge others,and yet you do at times because it is a human quality that you cannot always let go of. but remember that it is you who is judging yourself the freedom to evolve and allow others to do so too. You will be unable to follow the way forward if you continue to dwell on the things that have happened in the past. Focus on the path forward that is full of zest. You have joy in your heart when you look inside for the answers that can compel you to take your life forward if you allow it to.