I have learned that LOVE can wait to get. In contrast, LUST cannnot wait to get. Don't push things to happen because most people don't value what they perceive is ready and easily to get. If something is easily obtainable, they tend to take it for granted. However, when something takes effort to get, the appreciation for it is much more greater. The right one will respect you enough to not try to pressure you, and will put your wants and needs ahead of themselves. Just hold on to your dignity and bear in mind that LOVE never demands someone to do something that will violate another's values.