The heteronormative side of the Kpop fandom needs to stop acting like queer fans don’t exist. It always frustrates me when, for example, they call out all fangirls as being “hypocrites” for “drooling over oppa’s body” while shaming girl groups for doing sexy concepts. Okay um, I am a girl and I am a fan, and one, I have never shamed a girl group. Two, as an asexual, I don’t find sexy concepts in general at all appealing, therefore I have never drooled over an idol exposing their skin. Other people may like them, but I don’t. Three, not all fangirls are straight. Lesbian/bi/pan/poly/omni/ambisexual fans exist, too, you know, so by assuming that fangirls only drool over male idols, you’re erasing those who fawn over female idols. And heck, even there are a lot of straight fangirls who prefer female groups to male groups. Stop thinking us fangirls have a hive mind when we don’t