when fi will find understanding and develop a friendship, maybe marriage I think of the differences and similarities….
There are four important things Europe does not have, but it has ASIA. 1 Lady boy. I know of no Lady boy here. I think simply does not exist. Not the other bar girls either. We have no concept of bar girls in ASIA.
A girl is a girl. I can relate to girls who visit a bar in the same way that I can relate to girls who go to church. I buy a ring, or clothes for a friend there to show that I appreciate her.
We also do not respect the concept of how to use it. Here in Norway we have king but we can criticize our king. This is unthinkable in Thailand. The fourth term is offended. I was over 30 years before I finally understood what it was. It took another few years before I could put the word offended the feelings in my body, but even today it is only in contact with Muslims, I think that I might offend someone. So the question becomes how can we live without such concepts. The latter is easy. This offense is with an understanding of each other, or lack of understanding. The concept of empathy is important to us. We are not talking about you to have empathy, but empathy is essential to understand each other. Do not have empathy then breaks everyday together. Do you have empathy for each other we do not need to feel offended. Likewise it with respect. Even if a man says something horrible to me, I think of this and ask me questions about why this man says and does that. I want to get to know you love to build and develop a partnership