People communicate using their mind & body through the use of emotion.
Misunderstandings can arise because of stereotyping.
Tension is caused by emotions which can then lead to stress & anxiety.
Listen actively with empathy to reduce the perceived threat and try to show acceptance and understanding.
If everyone ignores the pinch then a crunch can be just around the corner.
The relationship may suffer as a consequence.
The secret of success is to look for the pinch before it becomes a crunch.