In such a situation, everyone knows her or his role and what she or he is good at.There should not to be a dispute about someone taking the role or the merits of another, as every- body would be satisfied just being the best they could be. Everyone has distinct abilities, we don't all need to be the same thing. So, learning self-leadership means, first and foremost, knowing ourselves, being aware of our own strengths and weaknesses, finding opportunities to grow, and recognizing threats to our own paths where we are likely to fall. self-leadership