When your baby is ready for toys, find a few you can play with together as well as those that promote independent play. Together, you can stack nesting cups, put shapes into shape sorters and take them out, put puppets on your hands (and make yours talk), shake rattles to music, and play peek-a-boo in a mirror. There are many styles of safe mirrors made for babies so they can react to their own faces. There are also numerous board books made for infants that promote cuddling time. Infants love to look at other infants, so find books that feature a variety of faces. Look for toys that offer “cause and effect;” the baby initiates an action and the toy reacts. Cause and effect toys teach your baby that she can control her environment and make things happen. A good toy will allow your baby to use it in many ways, not just one.
As your baby begins to stand, “cruise” and walk, pay great attention to safety issues. Clear the decks so he can feel free to explore. While playpens, swings, high chairs, and other restraining devices may be convenient for parents, they should be used prudently, if at all. Babies need to get up and go; this is when playing with your baby can combine fun and safety. You might have work or chores to do, but remember, the time you have to play with your baby is fleeting. Set aside some of that time for play; you and your baby will be glad you did!