Sometimes I wonder, just what is the best way to attract a guy? Are girls more respected if they’re quiet and docile, or assertive and aggressive? From observation, I've noticed that either way is an option, depending on what the girl really wants. If she wants to be with a guy as soon as possible, she contacts him. If she's looking for romance, she waits for the guy to notice her. At the end of the day all we really want to do is make an impact; linger in his mind so that we can be that "special" one that he remembers. I think that the dilemma for a girl is finding the best way to leave her mark. I will admit, this revolutionary girl-power of today is pretty refreshing, but who really wants to do all the work in a relationship?