When a child asks for a certain thing - the parent says, "do this and that and be good - and we will see". It means, "no. And, we expect you to forget about it and/or lose interest"
When an adult asks for permission to marry, and her parents say "after you get masters degree". ...... ..
It also means, "no. And, we expect you to forget about it and/or lose interest"
For a long distance relationship - they know - and everyone knows - this is a Herculean task.
Sampson, of the bible, fell in love with a girl from another tribe. When he asked to marry her, the father didnt want to say 'no'. But, he also didnt want to say yes.
So, he gave sampson tasks to perform prior to his permission.
These tasks, the parent hoped, would get samson killed and the problem would be solved.
This task, is a little similar in design....
What will you do with the masters degree? Will that help you get a job here in the usa? That is where we will live right?
Roger Long
9:28
Roger Long
If you got arrested and had to go to jail for two years - i could wait for you, no problem. So, thats not even the question. The question is, how does this two year sentence that i must suffer alone... How does that help us?
Is there a benefit to this restriction?
I am trying to understand the situation.
When a child asks for a certain thing - the parent says, "do this and that and be good - and we will see". It means, "no. And, we expect you to forget about it and/or lose interest"
When an adult asks for permission to marry, and her parents say "after you get masters degree". ...... ..
It also means, "no. And, we expect you to forget about it and/or lose interest"
For a long distance relationship - they know - and everyone knows - this is a Herculean task.
Sampson, of the bible, fell in love with a girl from another tribe. When he asked to marry her, the father didnt want to say 'no'. But, he also didnt want to say yes.
So, he gave sampson tasks to perform prior to his permission.
These tasks, the parent hoped, would get samson killed and the problem would be solved.
This task, is a little similar in design....
What will you do with the masters degree? Will that help you get a job here in the usa? That is where we will live right?
Roger Long
9:28
Roger Long
If you got arrested and had to go to jail for two years - i could wait for you, no problem. So, thats not even the question. The question is, how does this two year sentence that i must suffer alone... How does that help us?
Is there a benefit to this restriction?
I am trying to understand the situation.
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