To understand the needs of each other and to agree will accept and do all that makes each other happy most. Have you been married before .. or have relationship before ? Can you satisfy the man and understand his needs ? The pledge together must be based on knowing each other and agreement. Can I see photos of you in swim suit ? Can you tell me what gives you pleasure when make love ? Are you willing to do what makes me happy .. and you tell me what makes you happy when make love ?