I was quite down after realising this from TF... Everyone searching for love is like going through a corn field searching for the biggest corn.
Each of us went to the field, go through first row, and saw one big corn, but then we will wonders....may be there is a bigger one later. Then we saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for us.
Later, when we finished more than half of the corn field, we start to realize that the corn is not as big as the previous one we saw, we know we have missed the biggest one, and we regretted. So, we ended up with empty hand.