Of course we all want to be better people, we have a limited time on this earth so we should try and improve our selves to see if we can develop that trait that we admire and try to achieve what we want to achieve. I'm 18 and want to become a professional football (soccer) player I have played professional youth and don't plan on stopping there, I want to get a good degree, I want to marry somebody I adore, I want to enjoy life. Accept yourself for who you are and work from there. One can never stop improving!