they are also to a degree sequential. i may choose first honesty and then respect. they go hand in hand and without them any type of relationship, business, personal, family, whatever, is bound to fail. anyone who is dishonest cannot be respected. without showing respect, he or she is unlikely to be treated with honesty. those are fundamental to trust which lide respect is earned because honesty was first and was given. when trust is built and respect is earned and they are given and shared, then love and happiness is inevitable.